Or perhaps, a little heartbreak. Let's face it, everyone goes through a time in their life when they bend over backwards for another person, only to realize that the other person was a complete jerk, ahem, not interested at all. If you're just finding out that he (or she) is just not that into you, don't plan a date with Ben & Jerry just yet. Put on your pjs, download these tunes, and wipe that mascara off of your face. You'll be feeling better in no time.